Go to Settings → Privacy and tap Who can chat with you?. Pick Everyone, People who follow you or People you follow back. It decides who can start a new chat with you. Chats that have already started carry on as before.

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Choose who can message you

Choose who can message you in the app

  1. On Home, tap your profile picture at the top to open Settings, then tap Privacy.
  2. Under Interactions, tap Who can chat with you?.
  3. Pick one of the three.

Choose who can message you on the website

Open Settings on ayyam.com and click Privacy. Under Who can message you, pick Everyone, People who follow you or People you follow back.

ChoiceWho can start a chat with you
EveryoneAnyone on Ayyam
People who follow youYour followers
People you follow backPeople who follow you and whom you follow too

What it does

  • People it leaves out see no Message button on your profile.
  • If they try another way, like sending you a post, it doesn’t reach you.
  • It only covers new chats. Someone you’ve already chatted with can keep writing. To stop them, open the chat, tap their name, and block them with Block messages only. See How do I block someone’s messages only?
  • Making your account private doesn’t change it. With Everyone chosen, anyone can still start a chat with you.

There’s no separate folder for messages from people you don’t know. The ones this setting lets through go straight to your chats.